To quote a hit teen movie, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, “we accept the love we think we deserve. Wow, isn’t that the truth. Take a look around you and see who is with whom…just observe.
In my thirties I remember trying to figure out why all of my amazing, competent, smart and beautiful girlfriends were dating guys who were not shall I say, quite their equals? I looked around and saw gorgeous, driven and focused women, dating guys with no brains or drive. It took me some time to realize that I was doing the same thing and from that moment of realization on, the healing began. Awareness lit a spark and I started to pay attention to the guys I was drawing into my life.
My self confidence began to grow with meditation, yoga and age I suppose as well. It took time but finally I was ready to meet Satya and accept his love. I must admit that the first two years of our relationship blew me away because honestly, I didn’t even know that level of love even existed. I was blown away by his unconditional love. Yet I was ready, I was ready to accept the love I finally knew I deserved.
What do you deserve? Look around at your friends and see if they are in relationships that are worthy of how amazing you think they are.
I hope you feel worthy of unconditional love and that you have accepted into your life fully.